This is a lot to unpack which may scare people. You are asking them to do a self audit which many do not do unless it is a total catastrophe. I had to stop a lot to digest so I could respond in proper context. The definitions of love are of critical importance because we now toss that word around with ease. I loved the comparison of folks life to the messy room....point well taken. LOL. Never was aware of Bert Hellinger so that was nice to know. The one about belonging I just laughed. My childhood buddy use to say when a person was lost in life or love that they were an airplane almost out of fuel looking for a place to land. I laughed so much. We are in the age of mania love in this thing with our phones and how we can't let go. While walking this morning I had to dodge folks looking down at their phone or as I call them there P.E.D aka Personal Entertainment Device! In this world right now we need more agape love. may be that would help us. Nice one Natalia as usual I will have to come to this after proper digestion. #WELLDONE
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! On the subject of being scary, I agree that most people do it when they face a catastrophe but wouldn't it be less scary if we were to do it earlier? And absolutely, I completely agree that there is a lot to unpack. I have been doing it on this particular subject for the last 8 years and it's still going... I expect to continue to unpack until the end of my life.... Also, in my experience, we don't need to unpack all at once. We also can't. Usually, one or two stick for us individually and they are the relevant ones to tackle. Then, if we see the text again in a few years, something else will pop up that's relevant for that moment. Noone processes it all at once. Otherwise, on your example-- mania love and phone time in particular reduces our capacity for love and Love and that has been scientifically proven now. Thank you for your encouragement! Much appreciated!
This is a lot to unpack which may scare people. You are asking them to do a self audit which many do not do unless it is a total catastrophe. I had to stop a lot to digest so I could respond in proper context. The definitions of love are of critical importance because we now toss that word around with ease. I loved the comparison of folks life to the messy room....point well taken. LOL. Never was aware of Bert Hellinger so that was nice to know. The one about belonging I just laughed. My childhood buddy use to say when a person was lost in life or love that they were an airplane almost out of fuel looking for a place to land. I laughed so much. We are in the age of mania love in this thing with our phones and how we can't let go. While walking this morning I had to dodge folks looking down at their phone or as I call them there P.E.D aka Personal Entertainment Device! In this world right now we need more agape love. may be that would help us. Nice one Natalia as usual I will have to come to this after proper digestion. #WELLDONE
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! On the subject of being scary, I agree that most people do it when they face a catastrophe but wouldn't it be less scary if we were to do it earlier? And absolutely, I completely agree that there is a lot to unpack. I have been doing it on this particular subject for the last 8 years and it's still going... I expect to continue to unpack until the end of my life.... Also, in my experience, we don't need to unpack all at once. We also can't. Usually, one or two stick for us individually and they are the relevant ones to tackle. Then, if we see the text again in a few years, something else will pop up that's relevant for that moment. Noone processes it all at once. Otherwise, on your example-- mania love and phone time in particular reduces our capacity for love and Love and that has been scientifically proven now. Thank you for your encouragement! Much appreciated!
This is a hot topic...... Love. This can never be talked about enough.
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